Sunday, July 14, 2024
I'm going to tie this video into *people who mindlessly follow the corporation that the runs ABraThatFits.org*
Lol, is this account just a bot?
https://www.reddit.com/user/extrabananaspost/
Should probably be reported, as this shill account looks pretty obvious.
new account made June 16, 2024. Is this is a summer intern? 😂 Either that, or I guess the online sales shills have to make a few new accounts after I made this post in March to identify some of them. (Did I catch them all? NO. more on that later.)
The two forums u/extrabananaspost frequents to recommend the corporation's online calculator are r/TheGirlSurvivorGuide and r/PetiteFashionAdvice
MARKETING SHILLS
Here are all of her comments thus far https://archive.is/klWK1
Remember, the online sales shills just use upvoting software to make sure their posts and comments are seen on reddit. For example, this comment was probably upvoted using software.
Not as significant, but was this whole post fabricated by online sales shills to promote the corporation's calculator? It could be! The person who posted is a very low karma account, so who knows. You can find websites where marketers can just buy reddit accounts.
See the forum r/HailCorporate for more examples of marketing posts. The corporation that runs ABraThatFits uses both their reddit forum and their "6 measurement calculator" to promote their sponsored brands using sales shills.
Marketers purchasing upvotes are also discussed on this reddit post in case you are interested.
Saturday, July 13, 2024
Friday, July 12, 2024
Reason #8: the abusers rewrite history: this corporation can't even keep track of their own lies
Let's start with a quote from Deception Detective.
Mark Twain once said, 'If you always tell the truth, then you never have to remember anything at all.' This sums up the next mistake that lairs make: inconsistencies...Working from imagination instead of memory, liars often contradict themselves.
Re-reading through the comments of the cyberbullying post from last March (the corporation immediately made that post after I wrote this post, exposing them) I noticed today something interesting.
Comment
byu/UnforgettableBevy from discussion
inABraThatFits
There's actually several lies is the post above. 1) Quoting someone's username from a public forum is not "doxxing" them. That was the username that they chose. If they wrote something stupid that paints them in a negative light - which they did - that's a lesson they need to learn: never chose a username from a public forum *that maybe people can recognize you from.* I CAN NOT SAVE PEOPLE FROM THEMSELVES.
If they regret saying something, which they obviously do, it's going to have to be a lesson they learn! It's "classic dumbass," and there's nothing I can do about their own stupidity.
Of course reddit isn't going to remove quotes taken from a public discord group! Anyone on the planet has access to a public discord, and it's not against rules to QUOTE A PUBLIC FORUM, LOL. 😂
She reiterates it again below
Comment
byu/UnforgettableBevy from discussion
inABraThatFits
THIS LIAR FORGOT THAT HE OR SHE PINNED A POST TO THE TOP OF THE ABRATHATFITS FORUM SAYING THAT PUBLIC DISCORD HAS BEEN "TAKEN DOWN" TO "CLEAN IT UP"!!! THIS LIAR CAN'T KEEP TRACK OF THEIR OWN LIES!
Reminder From the Mods & Blackout Stance
byu/UnforgettableBevy inABraThatFits
Here is the archived post (in case you were wondering) https://archive.is/3uEfF
Since I made posts explaining What Doxxing Is as abusers do they have to "rewrite history." Suddenly the PUBLIC discord group was "private." You can go through and read this post I made on r/Polishbras exposing their cyberbullying, the Public Discord group was exactly that, PUBLIC.
Trying to make up this lie that it was a "private group," when everyone knows that it wasn't.
Here is further proof that the Public Discord was exactly that, public!
Here is the archived post, I believe I archived it one year ago https://archive.is/hcjS8
Reason #7 Why ABrathatFits.org is run by a corporation: not allowing comments "we were doxxed" post so the issue couldn't be clarified
Okay, this might be a bit of a stretch, but I think it is condemning to not allow comments on this post.
https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/1470y0x/reminder_from_the_mods_blackout_stance/
Then people couldn't ask, "WHO DID THIS?" so that they couldn't ask me, and I couldn't show them the screenshots & explain what doxing is. Because I noticed the "doxing" mention again last March, after I wrote this post exposing them, and then the corporation wrote this post (& upvoted it to the high heaven with their marketing software) to deny all allegations of being a corporation.
Reason #6 ABraThatFits.org is run by a corporation: Dishonesty about the "doxing" incident
See previous post about Discordgate (or "Touch Grass Gate," I haven't decided on a title). Being quoted by a username from a public forum is doxing?
Since the corporation lied about something *so obvious*, it shouldn't be that further of a jump to see they're lying about many other things as well!
Like that fact that they're a corporation with a bunch of sales shills!
What It Means When a Borderline or Narcissistic Woman Says, "I Feel Unsafe"
note: this could apply to borderline or narcissistic men as well.
Dr Tara Palmatier's practice is focused on men escaping abusive partners. Obviously, I'm not a man, neither am I in an initiate partner relationship with my cyberbullies! However, I have been a victim of abuse by a corporation: part of their shady sales techniques include cyberstalking/cyberbullying. My abusers are [mostly all] employees of a corporation (lingerie marketing firm, to be specific). To be fair, a few non-employees chime in for the abuse (I call them "useful idiots").
Okay, I'm going to tie this video into "Discordgate", this whole issue https://www.reddit.com/r/PolishBras/comments/10xmyor/going_through_some_comments_from_discord_last/ Sometimes I call it, "Touch Grass Gate" because it was initiated by u/jukeboxgasoline I'm not sure what her clinical diagnosis was at the time (intelligent woman, but I think she has NPD) and her request put me in an awkward place as a mod because I wasn't doing anything wrong, or breaking any rules.
But unfortunately u/jukeboxgasoline was so convinced in her own mind she was right, she spoke about it on a public Discord to try to gather support for the supposed "violation" (which was no violation at all, I was just using the share key between two forums r/ABraThatFits ---> r/Polishbras) The corporation encouraged her in her behavior on the public Discord group, which was unfortunate because if they were really her friend, they would've said something like, "I guess the forum isn't for you," or something like that.
I find the corporations actions morally reprehensible. When confronted with the cyberbullying screenshots on the public ABraThatFits Discord group, they shut down the Discord group to the public. The corporation said they needed to "clean it up." Then they posted something about "doxxing" online (without mentioning my username), and they either purposely didn't allow comments on this post, or they deleted all the comments & locked the post (I'm not sure which).
If they would've allowed comments, I believe people would've said, "You're full of it: quoting someone from a public forum by their username isn't even remotely close to what doxing is. Everyone choses their own username, it could be anything. If these people were posting nonsense on a public forum that they later regret saying, it's their own fault.
You're not violated from being quoted from a public forum. If you write something on a public forum and someone quotes you, but that makes you look bad, let me play for your the world's smallest violin!🎻 because that is YOUR OWN DUMBASS FAULT!
No one on the ABraThatFits public Discord group has the good sense to tell you that (except for maybe the redditor who they falsely accused) because you shouldn't have written that in the first place! Live and learn u/jukeboxgasoline, maddy, et. all.
No one was ever doxxed. That's just more cyberbullying from the corporation. They employ the DARVO technique on a regular basis; any time the corporation gets confronted for their cyberbullying they "reverse victim and offender." They're slime!
side note: to make matters worse, they continued with the cyberbullying abuse by accusing a random member of reddit/Discord/bratabase as the one who took the screenshots and forwarded them to me!! (I think she tried to confront them with reality, like, "posting screenshots of a public forum isn't doxing," but I don't remember exactly. In any case, it was a useless endeavor. She was trying to do a good deed and explain reality to these people, but these people kept reinforcing the delusion (folie a deux) it was like trying to explain heaven to bears!)You know that makes perfect sense considering the public Discord was open to everyone on the planet!! Of course it must be this one person!! [sarcasm]
I mean, how are they trying to guess when the public Discord group was open to everyone on the planet!
Note the crazed look on the Pepe Silva meme above; it's appropriate for this situation. The employees are crazed like this.
Well, they were 100% wrong! Of course, it wasn't that person. Only 8 billion more people to go...
You know the expression "the meeting of the minds?" Well, going through that whole conversation of u/jukeboxgasoline talking to some of the online sales shills (corporate employees) on their public ABrathatFits Discord group - this is the opposite of the meeting of the minds. More like the meeting of the effwits. It's like insane people speak, we'll go through the screenshots.
After it happened, I felt like their conversation was folie a deux. BuT at that time I didn't realize that ABrathatFits.org is run by a corporation (more on that).
Anyway, here is the video. https://www.youtube.com/live/UuGqtuFeJ4w?si=ftJs2f99Zc1S44Y0 Obviously, not everything is going to apply as I'm not in an "intimate partner relationship," but there's still overlap in dealing with the cyberbullying corporation. Interestingly, Tara talks about DARVO, something that I've mentioned before in regards to "Discordgate." Or just dealing with this corporation in general!
Thursday, July 11, 2024
Deep Dive: EMARSguitarsandARs
I was trying to look up a deleted comment from this account https://www.reddit.com/user/EMARSguitarsandARs/, so I tried to look it up on reveddit https://www.reveddit.com/y/EMARSguitarsandARs/ just cause I thought it would be there, but still couldn't find it.
Anyway, I was looking for a comment from the above post, and I finally found it on reddit. BUT WHILE I WAS LOOKING, I noticed a lot of comments that are kind of "Reg flaggy" - and this is just to my trained eye (because I've known for 11 months that ABrathatFits.org is run by a corporation, and they just use marketing software to upvote themselves, social media listening software, have sock puppet accounts, etc.)
Here's what I found interesting. The "red flags" if you will.
Wednesday, July 10, 2024
Cat & Mouse game (Reason #5)
Reason #5 ABrathatFits.org is Big Bra: it's like the online sales shill accounts play a cat & mouse game with me. I write a comment - they have to respond to it immediately!
It's clear to me that the corporation that runs ABrathatFits.org is using something called "social media listening software" because you'll see their shill accounts pop up everywhere on reddit, so I imagine they're just putting some keyword like "bra size," or whatever. (google "social media listening software" and it will pull up results of the kind of software they use) I'm sure they have "BraOdyssey" put into their social media listening software as well, I only say that because *they respond right away* to my posts and comments.
One OSS that usually pops around a lot is u/linerys. Just looking at her reddit account today (7/10/24), she's popped around reddit, talking about bras -usually recommending the ABTF calculator. Okay, the fact that someone does this occasionally is not suspicious, but u/linerys does this almost every day for years. Then it's a job.
For example, a day ago u/linerys is commented on the forum "r/MTF" on bra sizes. Do I think that u/linerys, a ciswoman, is regularly reading the forum? Why would she?
If she decides to transition, that would be the wrong forum! Lol. She should read r/FTM. (Furthermore, she said in this comment right above that that her partner is cis-gendered male. So, unless she's helping him transition...
No, u/linerys doesn't read r/MTF regularly, instead she [an employee of a lingerie marketing corporation] is using social media listening software, with keywords like "bra" or "bra size" to formulate leads. It's a job.
the online sales u/28FFthrowaway immediately responded to my comment on bratabase as well.
SO MY POINT IS, I respond --> they respond (the online sales shills), I respond --> they respond. It's clearly their job to deny stuff!
Typical shill response - waaaayyy too much detail to the point where it's clearly their job to plug Panache/W.E. (Reason #4)
I know I just used this link https://archive.is/679bM to talk about how u/galaxystarsmoon has strangely memorized the gore heights of bras she doesn't even wear (who does that?) But look at this response used earlier by u/Beautiful_Fennel_434
Who would ever write something like this unless they are paid? No one.
Tuesday, July 9, 2024
Typical Shill Response - Do our sponsored brands draw blood? Add a cushion. Make it work! NUMERO TRES
https://www.reddit.com/r/bigboobproblems/comments/1dyb8y5/the_bra_wires_are_killing_me/
The corporation that runs ABrathatFits.org hired a new online sales shill https://www.reddit.com/user/Capital-Swim2658/, I noticed her mostly b/c she came on to r/Polishbras to harass me in the comments of this post, but that's another story. She's kind of a goofy lady.
I digress, I noticed this pattern: every time someone complains about Elomi, or another one of their sponsored brands on the forum r/BigBoobProblems, the OSS accounts (online sales shills) will defend them.
Typical Shill response - must know the gores of the bras that I do not even wear NUMERO DOS
Two [of the many] reddit accounts that I've picked out as online shills are u/Beautiful_Fennel_434 and u/galaxystarsmoon
How many more are there? Who knows!
101 Reasons why ABrathatFits.org is run by a Corporation NUMERO UNO
BIG BRA!! yup.
reason #1 https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/wiki/beginners_guide/
On first glance, it looks like they're giving you a ton of options but it's really just their TWO SPONSORED BRANDS (with the exception of a couple Curvy Kate recs. Not surprised because their sponsored store BraStop is owned by Curvy Kate. And a Bravissimo rec. Bravissimo is their sponsored store as well) There's no reason why they couldn't recommend Ewa Michalak, or Gorsenia, or any other brand. Once you find your size, they're consistent. (unlike the sponsored brands, which are all over the place as far as sizing, which is why they always plug their "free shipping" gimmick, but I digress).
We have tons of resources on r/Polishbras re: where to buy them.
Let's look at the list
Yellow = Panache
Blue = Bravissimo
Green = Wacoal-Eveden
If you look at the brands that women are actually buying in the US, none of their sponsored brands are even in the top 100 on amazon. The closest they get is around #125. So, the ABraThatFits forum is not really a discussion forum; it's run by digital marketers to plug their sponsored brands. Furthermore, while I *myself* don't wear the American brands, I prefer the Polish brands, there are other woman who find their most comfortable fit in the US brands! Though the digital marketers always talk smack about the US brands -- they are paid to do so --the American brands should be considered as well as well as the Polish brands, the French brands, the Belgium brands, other European brands, etc.
Monday, July 8, 2024
Claude AI - he's doing a good job
Part II from the previous post, I continued with my questions and asked him, "what bra would you recommend for full on bottom, close-set breasts?"
For full on bottom, close-set breasts, I would recommend the following types of bras:
1. Demi-cup bras:
- These provide good coverage for the lower part of the breast while leaving the top more open, which suits the full-on-bottom shape.
- The lower cut on top prevents gaping that can occur with full-coverage styles.
2. Plunge bras:
- The low center gore is ideal for close-set breasts, preventing the gore from digging in between your breasts.
- They often provide good lift and shaping for full-on-bottom breasts.
3. Balconette bras with a lower gore:
- These offer good support and shaping for the lower part of the breast.
- Look for styles with a lower center gore to accommodate close-set breasts.
4. Bras with stretch lace on top:
- The flexible upper section can accommodate variations in fullness and prevent gaping.
5. Seamed, unlined bras:
- These often provide better shaping for full-on-bottom breasts than molded cups.
- Look for styles with vertical seams for lift and shaping.
When trying these styles, ensure that:
- The cups fully contain your breast tissue at the bottom and sides.
- There's no empty space at the top of the cup.
- The center gore lies flat against your sternum without digging in.
Would you like any tips on how to check the fit of these styles once you try them on?
Using AI to find a bra that fits
I decided to try using AI to find a bra that fits https://claude.ai/chat/b276cd88-0074-4b34-8885-eb9e70cbd984
Me: Help me find a bra that fits
To help you find a bra that fits well, I'd suggest following these key steps:
1. Measure yourself accurately
2. Determine your band and cup size
3. Consider your breast shape and positioning
4. Try different styles
Would you like me to explain any of these steps in more detail? I can also provide tips on signs of a well-fitting bra if that would be helpful.
Me: Yes
Certainly. I'll go through each step in more detail:
1. Measure yourself accurately:
- Measure your underbust (directly under your breasts) with a soft measuring tape.
- Measure your bust at the fullest part.
- Make sure the tape is snug but not tight, and parallel to the ground.
2. Determine your band and cup size:
- Your band size is your underbust measurement rounded to the nearest even number.
- Subtract your band size from your bust measurement. The difference determines your cup size (1"=A, 2"=B, 3"=C, etc.).
3. Consider your breast shape and positioning:
- Breasts can be wide-set, close-set, full on top, full on bottom, etc.
- Different bra styles work better for different shapes.
4. Try different styles:
- T-shirt bras, balconette, plunge, full-cup, etc. suit different needs and shapes.
- Don't be afraid to try several styles and sizes.
Signs of a well-fitting bra include:
- The band is snug and level around your body
- The cups fully contain your breasts without gaping or overflow
- The center gore (between the cups) lies flat against your chest
- The straps stay in place without digging in
Would you like more information on any particular aspect of bra fitting?
Me: Explain which style works for each breast shape
Certainly, I can explain which bra styles generally work best for different breast shapes. Keep in mind that these are general guidelines and individual preferences may vary:
1. Full on top:
• Balconette bras
• Half-cup bras
• Open plunge styles
2. Full on bottom:
• Full-coverage bras
• Demi-cup bras
• Push-up bras
3. Wide-set:
• Plunge bras
• Push-up bras
• Bras with side support
4. Close-set:
• Plunge bras
• Balconette styles
• Bras with a low center gore
5. Shallow:
• Demi-cup bras
• Balconette styles
• Bralettes
6. Projected:
• Full-coverage bras
• Seamed cups
• Unlined bras
7. East-west (pointing outward):
• T-shirt bras
• Push-up bras
• Bras with side support
8. Asymmetrical:
• Bras with removable padding
• Stretch lace cups
• Bras with flexible materials
Would you like more details on any of these styles or breast shapes? Or information on how to determine your breast shape?
Me: Yes, how do I determine my breast shape?
To determine your breast shape, you can follow these steps:
1. Stand in front of a mirror without a bra on.
2. Observe your breasts from different angles - front view and side view.
3. Consider the following factors:
a) Fullness:
- Lean forward 90 degrees. If more tissue is above the nipple, you're likely full on top. If more is below, you're probably full on bottom.
b) Root width:
- Look at where your breast tissue starts on your chest. Wide-set breasts have more space between them, while close-set have less.
c) Projection:
- From the side view, see how far your breasts project from your chest. Shallow breasts blend more with the chest wall, while projected breasts stand out more.
d) Position:
- Note if your nipples point straight ahead, upward, or outward.
e) Firmness:
- Observe how much your breasts move when you jump or lean.
f) Symmetry:
- Check if one breast is noticeably larger than the other.
4. Compare your observations to common breast shape descriptions:
- Full on top/bottom
- Wide-set/close-set
- Shallow/projected
- East-west/front-facing
- Firm/soft
- Symmetrical/asymmetrical
Remember, many people have a combination of these traits. The goal is to understand your unique shape to find bras that fit well and provide proper support.
Would you like more information on how these shape factors affect bra fit?
Me: YesAnd as a side note, the more that I think about it, the information on their Beginner's Guide is not unique (another way to plug their sponsored brands) it can be gathered from various bra fitters & bra blogs. Claude just gathered the info for me and did a good job!
















